Monday, February 18, 2008

Xuan Xuan "ponteng" class today!!!

I’m extremely bad mood now! This morning, Xuan Xuan refused to go to school & yes she did skip school today. Not that I agree for her to skip school, that’s the whole darn thing that makes me upset!

The frustration begins…

Early morning, Xuan Xuan told me that she’s tired & didn’t want to go to school. After much coax, she finally agreed to wake up, brush her teeth, uniform on, had her simple breakfast, so far so good. The minute I asked her to wear her socks, she started to cry and again telling me the same thing that she doesn’t want to go to school??? I was like… What?? Why??

I asked Xuan Xuan the reasons that she didn’t want to go to school. She can’t really answer me. After much probing, she finally said “yes” to this question – Is there any naughty boy bully you? I don’t know, and not sure how true could that be, but one thing for sure is that Xuan Xuan is very timid as well as a docile child which I am very pleased with. She hates violence that’s for sure… could it be those little kids’ violence that scares her??? Guess I will have to make another trip to her school tomorrow morning to check it out!

Before that, I scream at her to stop all these nonsense as I was rushing to work (I know I shouldn’t do that but I was really running out of time this morning! And of course I feel terribly bad now). I forced her to wear her socks & shoes & attempted to tuck her in my car! It failed as an evil came!! (My sister is the evil – Not that I wanna call her evil but because of her, it is so difficult to discipline Xuan Xuan. I think only those who stay with their parents or in-laws understand what I mean. When you try to discipline your kid and suddenly somebody just interrupts by saying “he/she is still small”, “they are still kids”, “Give them more time”…etc I just feel like want to kill myself!!!)

Since Xuan Xuan has strong support. She won & skipped school this morning! Arh!!! What a day!!! I hope it wouldn’t drag too long!

9 comments:

JK said...

I know how you feel. Every time I try to discipline my children, I wouldn't like people to campur tangan.

Anonymous said...

gosh that's what i hate too! mine one got her backup from my in laws which think ponteng is just sik sang choi! " don't want? don't go la"

esther

Hazel said...

sign, how's she now?

Anonymous said...

Hai..hard to talk with orang tua on how to lecture our own children ler..

Anyway, hope you feel better now. I also pay a visit to SQ's kindy just to check if the friend she mention is "real" person or not..I am quite worry she kena bully also..also chat with the teacher awhile, hope could understand the kindy conditions better lor.

TheBlueRanger said...

just swallowed it this time but i think you need to talk to your sister.

De'Little Ones said...

bully i think is normal. I taught Kylie how to protect herself.

Chinneeq said...

normal la....qiqi also give lots of excuses and cry after the long holiday. I just ignore her, put her into the car and let her cry. No excuse for ponteng, hehe...

Hazel said...

some awards for you to choose which one u like, have a nice day.

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